Respondent X (daughter of Respondent V): MY FATHER BEAT UP MY MOTHER VERY
OFTEN SINCE I WAS A CHILD. But my mother was able to free herself and left my father.
Respondent X: IF THERE WERE CASES OF ABUSE IN TERMS OF HOUSEHOLD
CHORES, “MY HUSBAND WILL THE TOPNOTHER AS HE NEVER HELPED ME IN
OUR HOUSEHOLD CHORES. I WAS LIKE HER NANNY.”
Respondent Y : My husband is a “HABITUAL ALCOHOLIC. HE COMES HOME DRANK
AND WE FOUGHT. WHEN THIS COVID-19 EXISTS, HE TEMPORARILY STOPPED”
Respondent N: I EXPERIENCE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, BECAUSE OF FINANCIAL
PROBLEM. MY HUSBAND IS HOT-TEMPERED. I WILL NEVER DENY THAT HE
USED TO HIT ME!
Respondent Z: I did not experience domestic violence…”MAGSINABTANAY ME DUHA.”
Respondent 1: Our neighbor knows it, I was not able to experience violence. “Palangga ko sa ako
bana.” We have problems which I cannot deny. We have financial problems, because of unstable
job. We do not know sometimes where to look for food and how to provide essential items for our
family.
Respondent R: I WAS ABLE TO EXPERIENCE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. MY
HUSBAND HAD THE TENDENCY TO PUNCH ME ON ORDINARY DAYS. PRIOR TO
PANDEMIC, HE USED BE A DRUG ADDICT. LATELY, AS I OBSERVE,
ESPECIALLY NOW IN THIS TIME OF PANDEMIC…”NA USAB AKO BANA RON,
DILI NA SIYA ADIK, HINAOT UNTA DI NA MUBALIK UG SUYOP.”
Respondent L: “MY HUSBAND USED TO PUNCH ME IF WE QUARREL I ALWAYS
HAVE BRUISES. I AM LIKE A PUNCHING BAG!”
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