suporta canamon con mi anak (Yes, but my mother said to let him be
because my mother can support me and my children).”
Researchers’ Observations:
S26 has been a survivor of physical,
psychological (verbal and emotional), and economic violence. She now
lives with her parents along with her four children.
Analysis: S26 spoke of her pain and suffering at first, but she eventually
shared of her new life being free from the bond of her stressful marriage,
with her mother as her principal supporter emotionally and financial.
Survivor 27
S27 is from Sta. Maria, who is not legally married but is a live-in partner.
She has two children, both of whom are girls. She recalled that the first
incident when she experienced physical and emotional violence, was on
June of 2020. She was slapped in the face by her partner when he was
drunk. He insulted her with expletives and sneered at her. He constantly
threatened her with being shamed before anyone. She was also scolded by
him and by his parents.
She was just silent and being patient every time he does this to her.
“Tiene yo tiwala na barangay por eso no hay yo man dos pensamiento corre
avisa el cosa ya sucede (I have faith in the barangay that’s why I did not
think twice in running to report what has happened).”
She was always willing to report the incident whenever he would do it
again. “Ya reporta yo para tiene yo BPO (I reported so I could have a BPO
[Barangay Protection Order].”
Asked if she would file a case against him for VAW being a woman, S27
stated, “Si, pero si tiene yo cen. Pero sabe man yo onde corre y sabe yo
tiene canamon quien ayuda (Yes, but if I have money. But I know where to
run to and I know there is someone who would help).”
Researchers’ Observations: S27 has been a victim of psychological,
physical, and emotional violence and continues to be a victim of economic
violence. She is firm in her trust on her barangay’s support.
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