reform and when I thought that he just did at first and it would not happen
again).”
She was asked if she would file a case against him for VAW as a woman. S8
stated “Si, para jende ya canamun abusa el maga hombre y para ya sila
manda canamun hace sentí, pega, y cosa cosa ya lang ta encha canamun, y
hasta para cuankami aabusuhin ng mga kalalakihan at para tumigil na sila
sa mga panununto nila sa amin dahil grabe ang mga pasa na natamo namin
at ang sakit (Yes, so that we may no longer be abused by men and so that
they will already stop hurting and hitting us because the pain we gain in
our contusions and the pain).”
Researchers’ Observations: S9 is a battered wife, a survivor of physical,
psychological, emotional and on occasion, economic violence. She is aware
of her rights but is submissive to her husband especially when he is under
the influence of liquor or he is angry over any issue, whether domesticrelated or not. S9 is already aware of her gender rights, but explaining
these to be her human rights seems to be difficult for her to grasp.
Analysis: S9’s understanding of her rights as a woman, as a person needs
to be enhanced. She needs appreciation as a woman from her husband,
who constantly uses his non-support in finances as threat to the family’s
survival.
Survivor 10
S10 is from Pasonanca, who has been married for more or less 20 years.
She has 3 children aged 20, 17 and 11 years old. She remembered that her
husband has another woman and she actually saw it. She experienced
being physically hurt, as he kicked her at the side part of her feet when
they had a fight and being shouted at in a loud voice.
Her husband doesn’t have any job so she is the one providing for the
family. She was threatened with being left or abandoned for another
woman however she was afraid to report it because he might hurt her
again.
“Naisip ko ang aking pamilya baka maging broken family kami (I think of
my family as we might be a broken family).”
She never felt alone because she knows that her family and barangay will
help her. The first incident she did not report it. “Baka magbago pa siya at
maging maayos ang aming relasyon at naiisip ko din ang mga anak namin
kahit nasasaktan ako sa pangangabit nya (He migh change and our
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