issue among couples, she responded by saying that “they always fight because of poverty and
there is no privacy to get intimate. Changing wears are also a challenge. I have to cover a blanket
before I could change my clothes.” In response, fellow IDPs try to mitigate and pacify the
situation. However, according to camp managers and leaders, when the conflict is irreconcilable,
IDPs would usually relay the matter to the DSWD or the nearby Police precinct.
These kinds of reproductive labor are usually invisible in early humanitarian response. In disaster,
economic labor (an assumed responsibility of/for men or fathers) is usually disrupted – especially
in the early stage of disaster. However, for women or mothers, reproductive labor or necessary
labor – the taking care of the children, cooking, cleaning the house, etc. – never ceases. It is
significant to place this binary in perspective with regards to the situation in ECs. Therefore, it is
not only important to have an active safe space for women at the on-set of disaster; but also, it
is imperative to provide women’s rights training, educational discussion, and workshops that are
specific to the psychological, reproductive, and societal challenges of these women, so as to
create a more transformative and sustainable humanitarian response.
L IVING AT THE I NTERSECTIONS
Building from the analysis from above, we then focus at the collective stories of those who have
intersecting identities. It aims to highlight the invisible and visible forces that impacts the lives of
internally displaced women and LGBTIs. This forces can exacerbate situation, worries and
anxieties of some internally displace women and gender non-binary people; at the same time
gives privilege to others. Just like the stories of Tarhata, Fatima, and Michael below, their stories
are distinct because their lives embodies the intersections of various identities of internally
displaced women and LGBTIs. In other words, the aim is not to show that one group is more
victimized or privileged than another, but to reveal meaningful distinctions and similarities in
order to overcome discriminations and put the conditions in place for all people to fully enjoy
their human rights.
Below are the interviews and conversation with the IDPs:
Tarhata is 25 years old, married and with five (5) young children. Her eldest is five
years old and her youngest is but a little more than one month old. Tarhata is a
housewife, and her husband works in a construction as a painter.
During the interview, Tarhata introduced her new born, a boy she jokingly
nicknamed as Martial Law, referring to the President’s immediate declaration of
Martial Law. Tarhata explained that she gave birth on the 23rd of May, around six
in the evening – more than four hours since the firefight started in Marawi. She
also shared her views on martial law saying “Natakot ako nang marining ko na
mag Martial Law si Duterte, kasi narinig ko na sa nanay ko. Yung kwento nya po
agad-agad daw pong dudukutin ang mga kababaihan, yung mga pinag iinteresan
daw po ng mga sundalo, yung mga babaing magaganda tapos yung mga lalaki
bubugbugin daw nila. Kaya natakot talaga ako. Sabi ko sana di maulit yung kay
Marcos.” (I felt afraid when I heard the president declared martial law because of
the stories I heard from my mother. She said, women – beautiful women – were
abducted by soldiers, and men were beaten up. I really felt afraid, and I hoped
that this Martial Law will not be like Marcos’ Martial Law).
She shared that when the firefight started, her husband rushed home and ordered
her to pack as they are going to flee. Tarhata narrated how she responded, “sabi
nya, takbo na tayo, sabi ko, paano ako aalis eh kung masakit na ang tagiliran ko
at parang manganganak na ako.” (He said, let’s run and leave. I answered, how
can I leave if my lower back is aching already, and I feel like I’m ready to give birth).
A traditional birth attendant stayed with Tarhata while she was in labor, and
whenever they hear gun shots, the attendant would duck and they would pray
that the ISIS would not head their way. After giving birth, Tarhata and her husband
decided to evacuate. Her husband carried one of the younger children in a sling,
while holding another child. Tarhata, wearing her bloodied malong (a traditional
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