peddlers, or as “collateral damage”), or secondary victims as witnesses to the death of their
loved ones.
Related to this, the experiences of women and children of the War on Drugs and
extrajudicial killings (EJK) are more complex than the image of wailing family members
often featured in the news. Some women felt a degree of relief after the family member’s
death because he (or she) had been abusive to them, while some took a matter-of-fact
stance and focused on dealing with the issues that came after. The individual personalities,
the quality of their relationship the EJK victim, their position in the family, age, gender, and
socioeconomic class, among others, affect their expressions of grief and how they respond
to their present situation.
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Ensuring the family’s welfare was the primary concern of women after losing a family
member to EJK.
The impact of EJK on women and children revolved mostly around two things: the
psychological and emotional effects, and the effect of the death on the practical side of their
everyday living.
All the women participants are in agreement that securing the needs of the household was
– and still is – their most urgent concern. This can be as immediate as ensuring the next
meal to longer-term plans for the children to complete schooling. The women from lower
income classes were vulnerable to further deprivation of basic goods and services,
especially if the EJK victim was the family breadwinner. They also have limited means to
access information about their rights and options, and welfare services. The more well-off
women participants were more likely to have considered getting legal justice for the death
of their loved ones.
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Women bore (or, is bearing) the brunt of community ostracization and stigmatization
for having an “addict” family member.
This may be because women, more than men, are their families’ link to community life.
Women interact more frequently than men with their neighbors and are engaged with
community-based institutions such as schools, health centers, and churches, among others.
They build and maintain social relationships and network as an extension of their care
work for the household. Thus, women would also be a group that would acutely feel the
social impacts of the Drug War: the fear and distrust it sowed between neighbors, between
community residents and outsiders, and between people and government institutions.
Manifestation of community ostracization and stigmatizaton include relatives and friends
not going to the wake, not receiving support from the barangay, being gossiped about or
ignored. These incidents were either downplayed or said to have eased as time went by the
women, but it was also clear that many of them are still pained from the memory.
Panaghoy: The Philippine War on Drugs from the Perspective of Women
March 2019
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