8/23/2020
E-Library - Information At Your Fingertips: Printer Friendly
21. [Question]: What made you say that [Linda] has an unhealthy childhood
due to her pathogenic family?
[Answer]: At the age of seven [7] years old, her parents separated. Her
mother raised her and her sibling. It is known that her mother was loving,
however, strict and had disciplined her inappropriately. For instance, when
Linda has misbehaved or has committed a sin, her mother subjected her to
verbal abuse [and] spanked her using her hand, a belt or a golf iron rod.
Linda also suffered the same from her stepfather when he punished her. As
a matter of fact, many times, her stepfather dunked her head in the water
when she would misbehave. This has made Linda rebel against her parents
when she became a teenager. She also developed hatred towards her
stepfather because she felt that he was only a second father to her and did
not have the right to punish her in that manner.
Moreover, Linda's parents struggled through life and made a lot of sacrifices
to [attain] financial success. They saw money as the key to success in life
and the answer to satisfy one's needs. This has made Linda prioritize the
satisfaction she would derive from material things and would do anything to
get what [she] wants. On the other hand, Linda's resentment and lack of
love and attention from her father has resulted to her demanding and
domineering ways towards the opposite sex x x x. All these has (sic) made
her display narcissistic and borderline behaviors.
xxxx
24. [Question]: Based on your expert
psychological disorders start to develop?
opinion,
when
did
[Linda's]
[Answer]: It x x x started to develop during her growing up years x x x and
before her marriage.[36] (Emphasis omitted)
While Dr. Lopez attributes the gravity of Linda's disorder to her alleged unhealthy
childhood, none of the informants whom he interviewed claims to have known Linda
since childhood. Moreover, neither Marife nor Ronilo appear to have known Linda prior
to the marriage in question. This significantly impairs the weight of Dr. Lopez's findings,
insofar as they are based on the informants' narration of Linda's childhood events and
circumstances which they appear to have no personal knowledge of.
In any case, the Court
elibrary.judiciary.gov.ph/thebookshelf/showdocsfriendly/1/65268
6/6